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Hi, I’m Elaina and I want to help you live life on your terms, find a career you love, and travel as often as you want. These are the best years of your life and you deserve to be FREE! 

 

I’ve lived, worked, and traveled to more than 60 countries, including some pretty off-the-beaten path destinations like Mongolia, Ethiopia, Nigeria, and Paraguay. I lived out of a suitcase as a full-time nomad for 5.5 years, ever since leaving my management consulting gig in New York in 2013. You can read my full story here. I’m now living my dream, settled in Bali, Indonesia, fully independent and working happily on projects that support my deepest passion! 

 

What makes my story unique is that I’ve traveled AND built a professional career, working for companies like IBM and Uber over the years. I’ve also spent long stretches of time freelancing and traveling adventurously through South America, Asia, and Africa. I now make my living helping others break out of ordinary living and get clear on their mission in life. I get paid to help people MANIFEST THEIR DREAMS like I did — how cool is that?  

 

I write about self-development, digital nomadism, charting unconventional life paths, finding jobs overseas, pursuing long-term travel, and living purposefully in a fast-paced, confusing world. There’s simply no one-size-fits-all model for creating a life you love. I’ve always done things a bit differently and I think there are SO many feasible ways for people to live “off the beaten path”. I hope my blog lets you see what’s both possible and practical.  

 

I started this blog because I want to help you find an exciting career, travel the world, break the norms, and develop yourself both personally and professionally. Drop me a line at elaina@lifebefore30.com or apply to work with me directly! 

That Time I Learned I Can Travel and Not Have to Prove It to Anyone

Posted on March 18th, 2015

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All photos included here are from a later trip to the Swahili coast in Tanzania.

(Hey, it’s a blog, I have to be illustrative!)

 

His dark eyes twinkled like sharp, black diamonds nestled under an unkempt brow, his graying hair topped with a yellow kofia. I sat perched in the center of the ngalawa, locked in a discussion about angels, an unlikely exchange to be having with a Kenyan Muslim named Juma.

 

As we spoke, I noticed he was sporting a raveled San Diego Chargers t-shirt and generic African-print shorts, pitching the few inches of water that swirled around his feet over the side of the boat with a jagged plastic container.

 

“I like your spirit,” he said mid-scoop and smiled broadly, without any hint of flirtatiousness. “I think when we met, your angel knew my angel already. They must be old friends.”

 

A slightly nutty way to justify why, as a solo female traveler, I would have climbed aboard a strange fisherman’s boat earlier this morning, no less one with water trickling in from dozens of small cracks around the hull. It must have been my angel at work.

 

I nodded back and smiled at the pristine white line on the horizon that we glided towards, mostly due to the heaving efforts of the ship’s captain standing at the back and driving a 6-foot tall wooden stick into the mud below, his arms rippling with each movement. His Rastafarian dreads were tied back in a neat half-ponytail that framed his young face, which frowned slightly at our odd topic of conversation.

 

The breeze was warm and my toes tickled the turquoise waves below, my newly tanned legs swinging off the side of the narrow boat, taking in the Swahili shores with a contented sigh. Everything was picture-perfect and I was silently kicking myself for not bringing my camera along. Yet the unstable nature of our handcrafted vessel, seemingly prone to capsizing at a moment’s notice, assured me it was probably a wise decision.

 

Juma seemed to read my mind and purred in his East African singsong, “Sister, sometimes a photo is no good. The photo is here,” he beamed, tapping his wrinkled temple. “You can lose a photo, but if you paint this place on your heart, it is forever.”

 

I am the most amateur of amateur photographers, one who takes decent photos only because she has good subjects, those found in corners of the Earth too naturally exquisite to have any other result. I like taking photos because it helps me peek under the rugs of God’s handiwork and get closer to the humanity around me as I travel, a humanity otherwise distanced by language and culture. I click and capture because a photo can be a classroom, and even if I have only one pupil, I consider it a class well-taught.

 

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Like many of us, I also like to take photos because it slows down the furious, rapid-fire passing of time and seemingly immortalizes small blips in my existence. I catch myself taking photos that shout, “This happened! This really happened!” and in those moments, it’s as if I’m confirming that the things that go unphotographed never existed, that what goes undocumented slips through the cracks of elapsing time, witness to our ultimately precarious existence.

 

The fact is, too often we smile, snap, and share like we have something to prove, to our social media networks and to ourselves.

 

Back on the ngalwa, with only a sarong and sunscreen tossed in a small bag at my side, I felt feather-light. There I was, on that beautiful hackneyed ship sailing along an ancient coastline, speaking about angels with a man who could have been my Kenyan grandfather in another life. I cradled that moment with my empty hands, a moment that was not any less real, any less worthy, or any less memorable for lack of capturing it for another person’s eyes. I grasped – and then freed – the feeling that I needed to prove this happened to anyone else, including myself.

 

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Do you feel the pressure to (over)document and (over)share your experiences with others? How and when were you able to truly be in the moment? Please comment and share below.

 

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Hi, I’m Elaina and I want to help you live life on your terms, find a career you love, and travel as often as you want. These are the best years of your life and you deserve to be FREE! 

 

I’ve lived, worked, and traveled to more than 60 countries, including some pretty off-the-beaten path destinations like Mongolia, Ethiopia, Nigeria, and Paraguay. I lived out of a suitcase as a full-time nomad for 5.5 years, ever since leaving my management consulting gig in New York in 2013. You can read my full story here. I’m now living my dream, settled in Bali, Indonesia, fully independent and working happily on projects that support my deepest passion! 

 

What makes my story unique is that I’ve traveled AND built a professional career, working for companies like IBM and Uber over the years. I’ve also spent long stretches of time freelancing and traveling adventurously through South America, Asia, and Africa. I now make my living helping others break out of ordinary living and get clear on their mission in life. I get paid to help people MANIFEST THEIR DREAMS like I did — how cool is that?  

 

I write about self-development, digital nomadism, charting unconventional life paths, finding jobs overseas, pursuing long-term travel, and living purposefully in a fast-paced, confusing world. There’s simply no one-size-fits-all model for creating a life you love. I’ve always done things a bit differently and I think there are SO many feasible ways for people to live “off the beaten path”. I hope my blog lets you see what’s both possible and practical.  

 

I started this blog because I want to help you find an exciting career, travel the world, break the norms, and develop yourself both personally and professionally. Drop me a line at elaina@lifebefore30.com or apply to work with me directly! 

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